一件是“自己的事”，诸如：上不上班、吃什么东西、开不开心、结不结婚、要不要帮助别人……自己能安排的皆属之。
一件是“别人的事”，诸如：小张好吃懒做、小陈婚姻不幸福、老李对我很不满意、我帮助别人，别人却不感激……别人在主导的事情皆属之。
一件是“老天爷的事”，诸如：会不会刮风、地震、战争、开悟、成道……人能力范围以外的事情，都属于老天爷的管辖范围。
人的烦恼就是来自于： 忘了自己的事，爱管别人的事，担心老天爷的事……
所以要轻松自在很简单： 打理好“自己的事”，不去管“别人的事”，别操心“老天爷的事”。
now go into the forth week d, got the allownance cheque few days ago, paid full, but will deduct back next week cause the admin made mistake…sigh…
i heard some only will get ther allowance at once after three months…pitty.
lack of rest this week, go out after work everyday…tired. but time passed fast…
felt started to get lazy in work, always surf net nia…
results out d, ngam ngam passed nia, done badly this time. luckily dint fail. i htink others are doing quate well.
my birthday is coming..hehe…a week to go….
now, the new task, studying on Savanna Condo at Bkt Jalil which been sold to Hanju Savanna, with limited source…how challenging is it ha!
i read abt vincent’s buletin posted on friendster, he is doin Sierramas. i tot most of our coursemates will do valuation…quaite suprise when hearing mostly doin marketing, so am i n jean.
n, da nice rose from rozita ad dead after 2 days of holiday. nobody watering it.
i heard dat we r goin to have a gathering within this few weeks rite? ha, now only left da ‘big bus’ follow in kl, da small bus ad in johor…so da coming gathering will be very few ppl only…
i always hear my senior said how ’song’ was her life during undergraduate in UM, but y my life of 3 years in em is totally different? is my attitute problem o da culture problem in alam bina?
从前有位国王，他有四位妻子。
国王最爱他的第四位妻子，给她穿最好的衣服，给她吃最美味的佳肴。 国王也很爱他的第三个妻子，常带着她去邻国访问。 国王同样爱着他的第二位妻子。她是国王的知心人。国王凡是遇到什么麻烦事，总要去找她商量并在她的帮助下度过难关。 国王的第一位妻子对他忠心耿耿，为帮助国王守住财富和王位付出了很多。然而国王却并不珍惜这位妻子。尽管她深爱着国王，国王却无动于衷。
终于，国王病重，时日无多。他暗想：“我有四个妻子 ，死的时候却只能一个人去吗？” 于是他问第四个妻子：“我最爱你，你能陪我一起进坟墓吗？”“想都别想！”这位妻子丢下一句话，头也不回地走了。 伤心的国王于是问第三个妻子：“我一辈子都爱你，你准备好同我一起去了吗？”“不！”这位妻子答道，“你死了，我就改嫁。” 接着他问他的第二位妻子：“你总能帮我。现在，你能同我一起去吗？”对方答道“这次我可帮不了你，我能做的至多是给你下葬。” 这时，一个声音传来：“我陪你去，你去哪儿我都陪着你。”国王朝着声音传来的方向望去，原来是他的第一位妻子。望着这位因营养不良而骨瘦如柴的妻子，国王热泪盈眶地说：“我早该对你好一点。”
实际上，每一个人的一生中都有四位妻子。 第四位妻子是我们的身体。无论在世时耗费多少时间和精力去保养，一旦离开人世，身体也就离我们而去。 第三位妻子是财富、权力和地位。哪天我们死了，这些东西都将落到别人的手里。 第二位妻子是我们的家人和朋友。无论他们愿意给予我们多大的帮助，至多也只能陪我们走到墓穴的门口。 我们的第一位妻子是心灵。人生在世，人们总在不断追逐财富、权利和欢娱，反而忽视了心灵。然而只有心灵才会陪伴我们走到天涯海角。
我们总是在追求那得不到的珍贵，却总是要在失去后才明白什么是最珍贵的，原来最珍贵的不是得不到的和已失去的，而是现在所拥有的。
2.看见别人喝粥，你在吃肉，如果不想让，那么不吧嗒嘴也是一种善良。
3.看见劫匪，如果不能挺身而出，那么悄悄打个1 10也是一种善良。
4.自己有钱，如果不想捐贫救困，那么多买点福彩也是一种善良。
5.看见人家伤心落泪，如果不想安慰，那么不幸灾乐祸也是一种善良。
6.做为教师，如果不能桃李满天下，那么不误人子弟也是一种善良。
The following is from a much forwarded email and it is verified to be true:
“Read the story below before you look at the pictures. This is a true story, it happened in Utah and was on the news!I thought each of you could use a little comic relief today. Here’s the story. A city councilman, Mark Easton, lives in this neighborhood. He had a beautiful view of the east mountains, until a new neighbor purchased the lot below his house and built.Apparently, the new home was 18 inches higher than the ordinances would allow, so Mark Easton, mad about his lost view, went to the city to make sure they enforced the lower roof line ordinance. Mark and his new neighbor had some great arguments about this as you can imagine — not great feelings. The new neighbor had to drop the roof line — no doubt at great expense.Recently, Mark Easton called the city and informed them that his new neighbor had installed some vents on the side of his home. Mark didn’t like the look of these vents and asked the city to investigate. When they went to Mark’s home to see the vent view, this is what they found … (see attached pictures).” 
The origin of these photographs is essentially as described above, something that arose over a dispute between neighbors in the southwest Salt Lake Valley community of Riverton over an adjacent property owner’s construction work on his home. The conflict started in 2005 when Darren Wood excavated dirt from a hill on which the homes of his neighbors, Mark Easton and Stan Torgersen, sat. The Eastons and Torgersens were concerned about the stability of the hill and contacted city officials, who ordered Wood to have a soil test performed. Wood was disgruntled by the decision because the previous owner had already done a soil test, and performing it again would cost him $3,000 and delay his construction project by four months.Then, when Wood began raising the frame for his house around mid-2006, his neighbors were again concerned because the structure rose higher than the rooftops of the other homes around his lot and partially obstructed their view of nearby mountains. Easton and Torgersen again asked city officials to intervene because they believed Wood’s house exceeded the maximum height allowed by local building code. Although Wood conceded that his house might have exceeded the height limit by about a foot, he was again disgruntled because he maintained that once the house was completed and the landscaping laid out, the home would fall within the code, and, in any case, the city had already approved his plans.Feeling that he was being unfairly harrassed by his neighbors and upset that the construction interruptions they prompted had cost him an additional $25,000, on 15 August 2006 Wood created a visible symbol of his displeasure by installing the vent covering pictured above, which he described as a decorative piece of “abstract art” representing a cactus. His neighbors, of course, viewed the vent cover as a giant hand flipping them off, sending them back to city officials to complain about Wood’s home for a third time.Wood said he would remove the vent cover art if he received apologies from his neighbors. When, a week later, Mark Easton “expressed to him that I am sorry for any discomfort that I have caused his family or him, and that I had no intent to do any harm to him when I called the city with my concern about safety,” Wood apparently found that sufficient and took down the controversial abstract “cactus.”
Source: Snopes.com
i tot i did post sth abt IT yesterday but hor, duno where it had gone… first of all, to belle n nicole, wish u both all the best too.. I don’t know dat I should feel happy o sad when reading belle’s comment in my blog…Belle said they don’t even have a table in the office, n did nothing for last week… Shouldn’t it b like dis way? I used to heard senoirs o others said that they went office for sleeping during training. But mine, we are doing management training here, and the seniors are throwing lot of things for us to do…but, it’s a good thing then we can learn a lot… We are doing capalang things (rojak) here…marketing, reasearch and valuation… Hehe…n fonglynn, at least u gt things to do rite… (hmm, frgtn what I wrote yesterday) …. I think I did touch abt EM space…err, I will resend the add, username n pw to everyone soon, n hope all will post sth there… —- liao, happy birthday aunsu o! …. Liao, is anyone know where can I get Man Utd’ ticket? …. Liao, hmm…. …. Ei, has everyone go to take form n letter from CITRA? If not yet pls do so soon, if not will consider we din do our training if we din fill the forms…n pls, write as much as possible comment to CITRA to improve their services. I did it…
ei, Man u is coming to town, did anyone know where can get the ticket?
a very nice rose on my table in office, thanks rozita.
